Scheduling Quality Time
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Spending quality time with the children is important. Just because you are physically available to them is not enough. Children need your love and attention to thrive. Sometimes, you may feel that you have been doing well at this. Other times, you know that you have been too focused on business and other matters to take time with the children. Be sure to give the children one on one time. This can be tricky sometimes, but with a little thought, it is possible.

I like to give my oldest son special attention while driving. He sits next to me and he has my undivided attention (besides driving) compared to being at home when he must compete with his younger brothers and my business matters. This is the time we talk and he gets special teasing, tickling, and kisses at red lights. We sing, act silly and tell each other our achievements, goals and obstacles for the day. I try to take a break and watch one television show or movie a week with my son. During this time, I can also get ahead on some of the laundry. I have my son help fold towels, mate socks and mend items that need repairing as we watch television.

My next two sons are very young. The youngest falls asleep early and wakes early the next morning. Morning is our time together. This child has severe eczema and we spend our time singing and playing while he has a special bath and creams applied. He “helps” me start the laundry then we have special hugs and kisses before his playtime. My middle son has special time after the other two are in bed or while the youngest naps during the day. This child is an adventure, so we never do the same thing twice, but whatever we do together is with hugs and kisses.

Finally, making time for your significant other is also important. This may require scheduling, regular bedtimes (recommended) or a sitter at times. Do whatever it takes. If you have someone that loves you and is supportive of you, make time to show him that you appreciate him and enjoy his company. Plan a special dinner for two or a night out if you can afford it. Leave your worries behind and focus on enjoying being a couple.

You’ll find making the time for those important in your life will pay off when you need it most. If your children and significant other know you will make time for them, they will be more willing to be patient, supportive and cooperative. Besides, wasn’t spending more time with the children and your significant other one of your important deciding factors to work from home? ;-)

About the Author:
Michele Barber is the owner of www.ChelesTreasures.com and Conversations With Chele, WAHM, a newsletter for work at home moms with support and resources needed to survive the work at home rat race. Subscribe here:
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